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3 Things Your Relationship Can’t Withstand

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3 Things Your Relationship Can’t Withstand

I think especially here on my website and on BMWK we like to share what you can do to start, grow, build and enhance your relationships.  It is also equally important to know the things you shouldn’t do, and even more important the things which are totally unacceptable in relationships.  Ignorance of the law is not […]

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Real Life is Stranger than Fiction (or Reality Shows)

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Real Life is Stranger than Fiction (or Reality Shows)

I have met some very interesting people who either needed coaching, wanted to ask my thoughts to help out a friend or just wanted to share a commentary on their own lives.  The situations we allow in our own lives are frustrating.  The challenges we face are truly stranger than fiction, because many of us […]

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How Do You Handle Your Patience Being Tested?

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How Do You Handle Your Patience Being Tested?

Patience requires a faith that things will work out as you plan or expect them to.  Patience is necessary in every relationship.  Everyone has different levels of patience and to take that one step farther, everyone has different levels of patience according to the particular situation, circumstances and consequences.  Patience in and of itself is […]

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5 Traits of a Long-Lasting Relationship

Filed in Blog, Relationships by on April 21, 2014 0 Comments
5 Traits of a Long-Lasting Relationship

Attraction will always be in the eye of the beholder.  What makes one woman sexy to me might make her repulsive to you and vice versa.  There are always going to be traits and characteristics in people which draw us closer to them.  I want to give you five traits that are absolutely essential to […]

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How Can You Claim to Love Someone When You Have an Exit Strategy?

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How Can You Claim to Love Someone When You Have an Exit Strategy?

I was speaking with a good friend a few days ago about relationships, and she gave me this topic as we were discussing how people come to relationships with options to leave.  There are some essential factors to a marriage that must alleviate the exit strategy.  Marriage is a life-long, binding agreement that requires full […]

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3 Traits of Commitment

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3 Traits of Commitment

How should those of us in committed relationships take steps to “move forward?”  Let’s touch on what things we should consider as we decide whether we want to commit to take our relationships to the next level. 1. Are we Better Together? We often hear it said that men are afraid of commitment.  There may […]

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3 Ways to Show Love Every Day of the Year

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3 Ways to Show Love Every Day of the Year

This is the month everyone talks about love.  Kids are asking other kids to “Be My Valentine.”   Wedding proposals are taking place all across the country and some are even taking it a step further and getting married on February 14.  Florists are inundated with last minute requests and jewelry stores have larger inventories because […]

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Single Parents: 4 Things Your Kids Are Learning from Your Relationships

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Single Parents: 4 Things Your Kids Are Learning from Your Relationships

As a single father, I’m always careful about who I date, who I bring around my children and deciding the right time to bring that special someone around my children.  Those are important concerns to think about when raising a child.  Your children deserve to see you happy and in a productive relationship.  Not only […]

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Write It, Post It, Speak It, Live It!

Filed in Relationships by on January 29, 2014 0 Comments
Write It, Post It, Speak It, Live It!

A couple of years ago, I re-started an exercise, which was posting my objectives on an annual basis.  One of my aspirations was to be married by the end of that year.  I had a huge “post-it note” type of sticker attached to the wall in my bedroom.  Every morning, I awoke looking at that […]

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Relationship Success: Protect and Serve

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Relationship Success: Protect and Serve

To have relationship success, you must protect and serve There are many times I have seen relationships where the woman felt like she didn’t feel secure. I think there is an instinct in many women to want to feel secure, not only in the context of the relationship, but to feel secure in their livelihood […]

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Powerful Words

Filed in Relationships by on July 24, 2013 0 Comments
Powerful Words

One of the things I have learned as a writer is the power of words Words highlight emotion. Words paint a picture. Words take on the character of the writer or speaker. If you have read a novel by Terry McMillan or a book about self-improvement by Tony Robbins or T.D. Jakes, you could often […]

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Living the single, Single, SINGLE Life!

Filed in Relationships by on July 3, 2013 0 Comments
Living the single, Single, SINGLE Life!

Let’s talk about living single As a relationship strategist, I want to touch on something you won’t hear many relationship experts discuss. Let’s talk about being single. In many of my articles, I talk about self-improvement and self-evaluation which creates “a better you” that builds “a better relationship.” My direction here is quite simple: Enjoy […]

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Designing your Relationship

Filed in Relationships by on June 26, 2013 0 Comments
Designing your Relationship

Begin preparing today for your future relationship For several years now, we have heard in society, (especially within our culture) that good men are hard to find. Statistically, the ratio of black men who are either incarcerated or unemployed is definitely higher than some of our counterparts. Some findings are that 1 in 3 black […]

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Impress…or Depressed?!

Filed in Relationships by on October 30, 2012 1 Comment
Impress…or Depressed?!

Gentlemen, I don’t think there is enough content for men about relationships. I will contribute to change this less than equitable behavior. Let’s start with a topic which I find intriguing to say the least:  How to impress a woman. What should we do to impress a woman? What do we say? How do we […]

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